You Are What You Repeatedly Do: A Tafsir on Identity through Aristotle and Islam

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Reclaiming the Self Through Habit, Excellence, and Spiritual Practice

Introduction: The Age of Identity Disruption

We live in a time where the word identity is used constantly—and yet, few can say what it truly means. For much of the last century, identity was easy to define. You were your profession, your degree, your title. You were the engineer, the doctor, the teacher. The job was your name.

But now, in the 21st century, that definition is unraveling.

Careers are no longer lifelong. Degrees don’t guarantee stability. Many are leaving rigid systems in pursuit of authenticity. Some have turned to freelancing or spiritual retreats. Others are stuck between roles—no longer the student, not quite the master. A collective unease is growing: Who am I, really?

We are witnessing a global identity crisis—and with it, a spiritual opening.

In this space of questioning, we can turn back—not to nostalgia or nationalism—but to the timeless roots of wisdom, where thinkers like Aristotle and traditions like Islam offer us something modern psychology struggles to provide: a way to build the self through practice, not labels.

Section 1: Aristotle – Identity as a Process, Not a Possession

Aristotle, the Greek philosopher who laid the groundwork for much of Western thought, did not believe that people were born virtuous or excellent. For him, becoming someone of worth—brave, just, wise—was the result of deliberate, repeated action.

❝ We are what we repeatedly do. Excellence, then, is not an act, but a habit. ❞

To Aristotle, virtue (aretē) is not something you have—it’s something you become. He described it through hexis, a state of character shaped by habitual choices. If you want to be generous, begin giving. If you want to be disciplined, begin with one small act of structure. Every repetition lays down a path in the soul.

This is a deeply liberating idea:
You don’t need to know who you are to become who you want to be.
You only need to start practicing.

In this view, identity is not discovered—it is cultivated.

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Section 2: Islam – You Become What You Practice

Islam not only echoes this perspective—it deepens it with divine intention. In the Islamic worldview, the human being is not a static identity, but a moral being in motion. You are defined not by what you claim, but by what your heart chooses and your limbs perform.

❝ And say, ‘Work, for Allah will see your deeds, and so will His Messenger and the believers.’ ❞
— Qur’an 9:105

Where Aristotle speaks of habit, Islam speaks of ‘amal (action). Where he speaks of excellence, Islam speaks of ihsan—the beautiful state of doing everything as if you see Allah. In fact, the Prophet ﷺ said:

❝ I was only sent to perfect noble character (makārim al-akhlāq). ❞

Character (akhlāq) is the Islamic word for identity. It's not your ethnicity, not your profession—not even your stated beliefs. It's how you treat others when they are weak. It’s what you choose when you’re alone. It’s whether you restrain your anger or follow your desire.

What Islam adds is the idea that action is not just ethical—it’s sacred.
Every moment is an opportunity to write your soul’s biography.

Even the smallest habits—your posture in prayer, your tone in conversation, your intention before work—are opportunities for soul formation. The Islamic tradition doesn’t separate the inner and the outer: you become what you do, and in doing, your heart is written.

Section 3: When Identity Cracks, Habit Can Heal

Now let’s return to the modern condition. Why are so many people anxious, restless, and unsure of who they are?

It’s not because they don’t have a purpose.
It’s because they’re disconnected from the process that builds identity.
They are told: Find your passion. Be your authentic self.
But what is the self, if not a collection of practiced habits and chosen virtues?

In both Aristotle’s ethics and Islamic teachings, the answer is clear:
If you feel lost, start with a habit.
If you feel unclear, begin with a small, excellent act, done repeatedly.

Don’t wait to feel like someone disciplined—practice discipline.
Don’t wait to feel like someone connected—pray with presence.
Don’t wait to find your “calling”—cultivate presence in what you’re already doing.

Because you are not what you feel in the moment—you are what you repeatedly choose.

In today’s world, habits are often reduced to “productivity hacks.” But in sacred philosophy and religion, habits are the bricks of your spiritual architecture. They build your soul.

Section 4: Returning to Ihsan—The Art of Soulful Identity

In Islam, the highest station after Islam (submission) and Iman (faith) is Ihsan—to worship Allah as if you see Him. But Ihsan isn’t limited to prayer. It’s the attitude of excellence in every action, whether you’re sweeping your floor or writing a book.

Ihsan is identity at its highest refinement.
It is what you become when your inner and outer actions align in beauty.

In a world obsessed with image, Ihsan calls us back to integrity.
In a world lost in theorizing, Aristotle reminds us to practice.
In both traditions, the message is the same:

❝ You become your choices. You become your rituals. You become your excellence. ❞

Closing Reflection: You Are Becoming Someone

If you're in a moment of transition—between jobs, between roles, between definitions of self—don’t panic. This isn’t the end of who you are. It’s the beginning of who you are becoming.

And who you become is not determined by your past titles.
It’s determined by:

  • The character you cultivate.

  • The prayers you return to.

  • The habits you refine.

  • The truth you uphold, even in silence.

You are what you repeatedly do.
So do it with presence. Do it with ihsan.
And let that be your name.

✦ Journal Prompts for Reflection:

  1. What are three habits I currently repeat that shape my sense of self?

  2. Which virtue (e.g., patience, honesty, discipline) do I want to cultivate—and what small act can I repeat daily to grow it?

  3. What actions can I take with ihsan, even in mundane areas of life?

  4. If I stripped away my career or title, what character traits would remain? Do I like that version of myself?

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